here's a thing I've found on tumblr,
Quote:you are not obligated to
- be someone’s counselor and help them with all their problems if its bad for your mental health
- be there for someone 24/7
- remain friends with someone who emotionally drains you
- maintain negative relationships because you’ve been close for so long, because you’re related, or anything else
- do anything that puts your health (mental or physical) at risk
somewhat important, but i can feel the disagreement coming in, I got the rep to tank all the disagreement.
also I found this awesome music
http://scn3-null.tumblr.com/post/135557194084
(12-21-2015, 07:53 AM)OdinYggd Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 07:46 AM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ]Well, see, the fact of the matter isn't that I can't stand him that's stressing me out, it's that he refuses to try. Charity starts at home isn't something he understands, and as much as I'd like to, I can't help him if he won't help himself (or if he tries to blame his issues on me).
Don't beat yourself up over not being able to help him. As severe as his problems are, there is only one person capable of truely helping him.
himself
In my experience with him, all we can do is tell him what we know that might be of use. It is entirely up to him to act on that guidance and make something of it.
I'm not beating myself up (or at least I dont think I am), but he's a nice person, and even though it hurts to try to help him, I couldn't sleep soundly at night if I didn't help him. Plus, helping him makes me feel a little bit better about myself.
(12-21-2015, 07:31 AM)OdinYggd Wrote: [ -> ]You're already well prepared to defend against such schenanigans, so all I would accomplish if I had a go at it would be wasting a hull and getting myself a criminal record on my clean-history pilot.
It makes me wonder why I didn't do it before. Makes the game take up some brain power more often, instead of being fairly straightforward in routine. Plus I already D-Scan like a madman from exploratory wormhole work, so all I needed was a tip on how to use it to narrow down positions. I might need to make a trade alt at some point though, can't do shopping runs in a ratting cruiser.
You mentioned your corp and your character. Can I get names or are you afraid I'll drop drones on your heads?
(12-21-2015, 07:46 AM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 07:42 AM)OdinYggd Wrote: [ -> ]No wonder you're stressing out then. The problem with him is that what he is going through is so severe that very few people can endure it for long by themselves. He really needs a group of people to support him- but at times his episodes get so bad that such a group cannot sustain itself for long.
And because the whole situation is ongoing without having really shown improvement, there is nothing anyone here can do to help him. I gave him my best, but he is beyond my reach if he isn't willing to develop some self-control and find ways to deal with his frustration and stress without taking it out on himself or the people around him.
I had to block him on skype because I was too stressed out myself to continue supporting him, though I might undo that in the coming days if I can keep things together well enough.
Well, see, the fact of the matter isn't that I can't stand him that's stressing me out, it's that he refuses to try. Charity starts at home isn't something he understands, and as much as I'd like to, I can't help him if he won't help himself (or if he tries to blame his issues on me).
I've been dealing with him the past few months. :V
(12-21-2015, 08:05 AM)SilverOtter Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 07:31 AM)OdinYggd Wrote: [ -> ]You're already well prepared to defend against such schenanigans, so all I would accomplish if I had a go at it would be wasting a hull and getting myself a criminal record on my clean-history pilot.
It makes me wonder why I didn't do it before. Makes the game take up some brain power more often, instead of being fairly straightforward in routine. Plus I already D-Scan like a madman from exploratory wormhole work, so all I needed was a tip on how to use it to narrow down positions. I might need to make a trade alt at some point though, can't do shopping runs in a ratting cruiser.
You mentioned your corp and your character. Can I get names or are you afraid I'll drop drones on your heads?
Danu Geldarc.
I'm still officially in CAS, but I usually fly with CASMA- CAS Mining Alliance. They run a 23 or so hour a day boosted mining fleet in 0.4-0.5 sec, and I've largely set up shop close to their operations so that I can mine with them in the evenings. Its a nice relaxing grind that way, and if the fleet commander gets disconnected I've got an orca of my own with T2 boosts on it to carry the fleet for a few hours.
At the moment my service is expired and probably won't be renewed till after new years, but I do login and play it fairly regularly.
Oh and dropping drones on me? I don't think you want to do that, because I've got a shiny new Hyperion sitting at the station being outfitted. You might be a big enough target for it to actually deal some damage, it actually can't go ratting because the rats are too fast for it to hit them.
A dream that actually kinda taught a morbid lesson? Weird.
(12-21-2015, 03:15 PM)Davepeta Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 03:07 PM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote: [ -> ]cute drop
[Null's obsession]
I may, MAY have an obsession of latias
moar lucario
and this is a spikeless lucario
*checks FA*
Ehks is wasting money on commissions again...
(12-21-2015, 06:37 PM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 06:33 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]*checks FA*
Ehks is wasting money on commissions again...
He better have pants this time
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/6295/?
Welp, someone did it......
spoiler alert, she has wings this time.
(12-21-2015, 06:48 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 06:37 PM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote: [ -> ]He better have pants this time
http://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/6295/?
Welp, someone did it......
spoiler alert, she has wings this time.
Arent those two things on his head are wings?
Oh wait, those are dumbo sized ears!
Well hopefully MANPADS can lock onto him once he's airborne.
All statements I made regarding Marxon in the past twenty four hours are hereby retracted.
(12-21-2015, 07:00 PM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 06:48 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]spoiler alert, she has wings this time.
Arent those two things on his head are wings?
Oh wait, those are dumbo sized ears!
Well hopefully MANPADS can lock onto him once he's airborne.
do you want to be banned for slander*
this is how you get banned for slander.
*this is a joke
(12-21-2015, 07:15 PM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 07:00 PM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote: [ -> ]Arent those two things on his head are wings?
Oh wait, those are dumbo sized ears!
Well hopefully MANPADS can lock onto him once he's airborne.
do you want to be banned for slander*
this is how you get banned for slander.
*this is a joke
And that was Null at <50% input power & 4am speech check
[FAILED]
I need to stop playing fallout for a while
(12-21-2015, 07:15 PM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ] (12-21-2015, 07:00 PM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote: [ -> ]Arent those two things on his head are wings?
Oh wait, those are dumbo sized ears!
Well hopefully MANPADS can lock onto him once he's airborne.
do you want to be banned for slander*
this is how you get banned for slander.
*this is a joke
I hear Microsoft bribes Ehks, we need a better admin than that.
[USER WAS BANNED FOR VAGUE SLANDER]