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RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - UnamusedAvali - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 01:28 PM)Marxon Wrote:(08-17-2015, 01:28 PM)UnamusedAvali Wrote: I do*the tubby fluffball squeaks and snuggles him* *Falls asleep RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Surge - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 01:26 PM)Segolia Wrote:It seems rather like you are disregarding the obvious evidence of prior events but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and fill you in, Cole has been making a sport of mocking me for a few months now, I won't have anything to do with somebody like that so I suppose he wouldn't have any luck trying to resolve anything with me because I frankly wouldn't mind if he died in a fire anymore, rukii on the other hand abruptly decided that me and my behavior are "problematic" and set along silently downvoting me, when confronted he claimed it was to "tell me what I need to stop doing" which still couldn't be less descriptive because he never confronted me about anything or made any real effort towards this goal of making me less of a problem user.(08-17-2015, 01:06 PM)Surge Wrote: So it's my fault that they couldn't be bothered to try and resolve any disagreement in a way that is constructive for both sides is what I'm getting from this. So as it turns out there's a good few past experiences that make this seem at least a little bit like a feud. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Reks - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 12:31 PM)Surge Wrote:(08-17-2015, 12:29 PM)Segolia Wrote: Call it playing devil's advocate but has anyone considered that ruu/cole genuinely disagree with what surge is saying/how he is acting and that it's not some kind of personal attack against him? (08-17-2015, 01:06 PM)Surge Wrote:(08-17-2015, 12:59 PM)Segolia Wrote: You're the one who made a comment in the first place. Little passive-aggressive jabs like that are practically inviting hatred onto yourself. It would be like making a post on reddit titled "I don't even know why I'm posting this since you're all going to downvote it anyway" and then complaining when people do exactly that. You DID call them out. And in the end? They don't have to do, or say, anything. It's their own choice whether or not they want to settle things, and they obviously don't. As far as I could tell, it stayed that way with them leaving you alone until you specifically called them out. So you provoked a response. And you got one, albeit in the short-way they decided to do so. (08-17-2015, 01:15 PM)Surge Wrote:(08-17-2015, 01:11 PM)Marxon Wrote: Rukii thinks I'm a lost cause too.Rukii can think what he wants I don't really care, what bothers me is this mentality everyone I meet seems to have that everything comes around to be MY fault in the end, that my mistake caused a bunch of other mistakes and could have been easily avoided just to make my mistake even worse in comparison. I have not and will not accept my role as verbal/emotional punching bag and scapegoat no matter how many people try and push me into it. It's the reputation you've built up for yourself, since you're usually the one who brings things up and you tend to have an 'unpopular opinion' about them. The only way to get others to see you differently is to change that yourself. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - UnamusedAvali - 08-17-2015 Please, please stop arguing, we know that Surge, yes, can be stubborn,but Rukii had no grounds to go on, Cole is a dick for his own amusement. So shut up and stop stealing what I do well. Ranting. Ranting is my thing. Welp I failed to read a bit of text and now I'm fighting a crystal bomber with 4 basic lasers They have 4 shields. I believe I've done fucked up Meanwhile on the rock homeworlds "It's a giant rock alien thing that can withstand fire what do we name him" *Slaver scratches chin "Emily" RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Surge - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 01:36 PM)Reks Wrote:And if they don't wish to settle things civilly I am under no obligation to do any mental gymnastics and regard their little acts of spite as anything other than what they are.(08-17-2015, 12:31 PM)Surge Wrote: Then perhaps they should publicly or privately raise that disagreement anywhere really instead of downvoting me in silence and with mocking comments respectively :V RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - UnamusedAvali - 08-17-2015 the Explorer I *One fuck up and a typo later The Exploder II "Actually, actually that seems accurate. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Reks - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 01:45 PM)Surge Wrote: And if they don't wish to settle things civilly I am under no obligation to do any mental gymnastics and regard their little acts of spite as anything other than what they are. That's fine, though again. You called them out, you got a response for it. Now this little incident is over. Go back to talking about games and mechs or whatever specific things I lack the context for. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Surge - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 01:49 PM)Reks Wrote:And I find their response amusingly futile.(08-17-2015, 01:45 PM)Surge Wrote: And if they don't wish to settle things civilly I am under no obligation to do any mental gymnastics and regard their little acts of spite as anything other than what they are. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - UnamusedAvali - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 01:49 PM)Reks Wrote:(08-17-2015, 01:45 PM)Surge Wrote: And if they don't wish to settle things civilly I am under no obligation to do any mental gymnastics and regard their little acts of spite as anything other than what they are. The Exploder II And with that i bid you goodnight before I start something random and stupid. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - SCN-3_NULL - 08-17-2015 RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Battle Bee - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 12:45 PM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote:(08-17-2015, 12:32 PM)Marxon Wrote: Why do i have the second or third lowest reputation?by the way who has the most reputation anyway, I dint see that filter/sort on the members list, Thread Builder. o wo The second place is yours. Also IT'S SOMEONE'S BIRTHDAY. BUT IT'S HIDDEN. APPARENTLY. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Surge - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 03:08 PM)L3W Wrote: I really dislike when someone just likes or dislikes you without explaining why they did so in the first place. By Just pressing one button you’ve made your intellectual contribution. Sure you can post a comment if you want to, but that takes too much time and grammar is hard. So you can just dislike something and move along on your merry way, knowing that at some point that person will see your little red mark against him/her without having any clue what your thoughts might have been... Rating systems are flawed imo.I like reddit's system, it's anonymous. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Surge - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 03:22 PM)L3W Wrote: It's some kind of stupid popularity contest. Does anyone ever just like or dislike posts for legitimate reasons? Stating what the person did right or wrong? Also What is the point of rating neutral on these forums anyways? I mean seriously it's bad enough that we have to have good and bad reputation... Anyways let's just say I am automatically the worst person ever because everyone decided to rate bad reputation just because they felt like it? Without any explanation?Whoa there mister crazy radical, some people just like to leave feedback without actually saying anything, it's kinda selfish to think everyone has to talk about everything you post /s RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Reks - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 03:22 PM)L3W Wrote: It's some kind of stupid popularity contest. Does anyone ever just like or dislike posts for legitimate reasons? Stating what the person did right or wrong? Also What is the point of rating neutral on these forums anyways? I mean seriously it's bad enough that we have to have good and bad reputation... Anyways let's just say I am automatically the worst person ever because everyone decided to rate bad reputation just because they felt like it? Without any explanation? The whole thing about negative rep is... Well, you said it in your prior post. Shows opinion without needing words. Otherwise rep or likes or whatever shows that someone, somewhere, took the time to notice something you did. Like my art. I don't show it that often here because I don't get much feedback, in terms of an entire post or even a rep or whatever. I could care less about the rating itself, but getting one does show me that someone cared enough to do something about it. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Calabrese - 08-17-2015 I'm tired of this bullshit. I'm really fucking tired. Not a week goes by in this forum without Surge shoveling shit for what looks to be purely spite, and then he's somehow the victim. And now simply downvoting his posts to express an opinion without having to engage in a long-winded waste-of-time argument is apparently "wrong". Surge, you never change. You have proven again and again that having any kind of argument with you is a waste of time, and effort, and the only thing it achieves is making people feel even more disgusted. Not to mention, those kind of argument always have turned this entire fucking thread into a revolting pile of rotting shit that is physically painful to look at. I have said it before, and while I can't speak for others I believe some share my view: I am tired of the drama, the toxic personalities, and all this bullshit. And through all this time, since I came across you in the Chucklefish forums, you haven't changed a single bit. You never listen. Your self-justifying me-against-the-world-against-me mentality is just fucking tiresome. And then there's wondering why people don't drop by here anymore. I have given this place far too many second chances, but at this point in my life I'm too fucking tired to try and deal with this bullshit anymore. My career, university, my personal mental health, and my friends are far more worthy of my time and effort. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Surge - 08-17-2015 Oh my well that did come out of left field. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Marxon - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 04:07 PM)Calabrese Wrote: I'm tired of this bullshit. I'm really fucking tired. Not a week goes by in this forum without Surge shoveling shit for what looks to be purely spite, and then he's somehow the victim. And now simply downvoting his posts to express an opinion without having to engage in a long-winded waste-of-time argument is apparently "wrong".If you're leaving, I wish you well. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - L3W - 08-17-2015 I mean seriously random topic threads can lead to nonsense sometimes. I mean we could be taking about how great apples are, but then someone could come along and rant about how terrible apples are because they found a worm in one. Then they would give negative rep to the people that like apples. /s RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Surge - 08-17-2015 (08-17-2015, 04:21 PM)L3W Wrote: I mean seriously random topic threads can lead to nonsense sometimes. I mean we could be taking about how great apples are, but then someone could come along and rant about how terrible apples are because they found a worm in one and give negative rep to the people that like apples.I'll be honest that sounds hilarious. When somebody gets spiteful for no reason like that there's nothing to do but laugh. RE: Avali Nexus Forums 2: Back with a vengeance - Jim_Clonk - 08-17-2015 I have no idea what problems you guys have. I've had two or three debates with surge that ended up being somewhat productive. |