06-10-2015, 03:26 AM
(06-10-2015, 02:31 AM)Ryuujin Wrote: I think we need to create a seperate thread for Marxon <.<
I feel like every time I post something useful and constructive that people should know, it's in middle of DRAMA time, and it gets buried in seconds before anyone can make use of the world shattering revelations).
Hell, let us make our own threads so we can post stuff where it won't get buried... this is a really awkward way to run a forum.
I reckon it wouldn't be a bad idea to replicate the 'feel good' thread that exists on the starstucks forum. It's just a thread to direct all general musings and issues like this and it keeps the discussion separate from the main thread in a bit more of a serious environment.
Also, may as well throw in my $0.02 Marxon (even though I'm a bit late to the party). I will say, you do have a tendency to be very... overbearing. Just try to remember that you're dealing with other people here who have their own lives and their own problems. Not everyone is able to so easily bear the brunt of another person's emotions, and as a friend they shouldn't be relegated to just being an emotional crutch for you. Friendship is a two way street.
It can be very exhausting for both parties to sit down and hash out emotional stuff and not everybody is up for that all the time. Stretching that idea to other stuff in general (like playing games with others), people have their own lives and they aren't available to do that stuff all the time. It's really not a sleight against you if somebody says that they can't play a game. If there is a particular thing like that you want to do try actually planning with the people involved, set aside a day and time to do it and it's much more likely to actually happen. Even when I'm hitting up my real life friends to play a game I'll usually ask in the morning if they are up for a game in the evening.
With regards to people telling you to seek professional help - it's not people trying to fob you off, it's people trying to help you because they care about you. Very few people here actually hate you, most people are just tired of your 'antics' (for want of a better word). We realise when we're inadequate and where we aren't able to provide the help you need. Despite your insistence otherwise these people are professional, they deal with this as a career and they are much better equipped to help you than we are.
I say this as someone who has been in a similar situation to yourself, and for whom actually visiting a mental health professional has helped more than I can possibly express. I mean if you got stabbed, that's a serious health issue and you would go to a hospital and see a doctor, you wouldn't fumble around trying to bandage it up with the torn off sleeve of your t-shirt. In much the same way, this is a serious mental health issue and you should seek the appropriate level of treatment. On more than one occasion you've expressed a desire to kill yourself and assuming there is at least some degree of truth to that and it wasn't something you completely manufactured for attention that is a very serious problem. It's the sort of thing you need to proactively address, not just sit on and hope it'll go away.