07-08-2015, 02:51 AM
(07-08-2015, 02:34 AM)Ehksidian Wrote:I Would like to mention that i was simply stating what drove me nuts originally... i will admit i have seen some improvement in him but i feel that he needs to take time to better himself and take strides towards dealing with depression and giving it the time it neeeds to be effective... during the time that he is adjusting i fear that i will snap on him when i know he is trying... which is why i refuse to unblock him at the moment.... not because i hate him... its because for my oppinion it is for his and my own sanity...(07-08-2015, 02:30 AM)Rukii Wrote: "I don't think he should allow himself to change absolutely nothing about his behavior even after getting help."
Surge, I'll admit to being a bit intoxicated, but what exactly are you injecting?
And the role you want for yourself is nothing less than mod, which you time and time again make blatantly obvious.
It's unfitting exactly because he's just started on mood altering meds, which is a state where he definitely shouldn't be provoked or confronted when not performing incredibly upsetting acts.
He should be left for three weeks, minimum. That is all.
Agreed.
I may re-ban marx, but only so he will have more time to adjust to his medication, and so people won't jump down his throat if he says what he said today. He was banned previously for threatening suicide.
He has gotten help. He is adjusting to medication, and needs plenty of time for it to take effect. I unbanned him a bit early, but only because he wanted some interaction. If people will act like this towards him whilst he is adjusting to mood-altering medication - which would logically make him more snappy and unbalanced until his body gets used to it and it begins fully working - I may ban him again.
Not out of need for help.
Not out of breaking a rule
But so he can relax and not have to worry about people getting mad at him while he's just now starting new medication.
again i don't hate him... i just feel he needs to adjust and let the treatment work... till then i feel its just... not stable enough for me to be around him as i am also partly in the dumps recently and rather not have him or me trying to cut each other apart out of something stupid... which i expect would set us off right now.