08-17-2015, 01:35 PM
(08-17-2015, 01:26 PM)Segolia Wrote:It seems rather like you are disregarding the obvious evidence of prior events but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and fill you in, Cole has been making a sport of mocking me for a few months now, I won't have anything to do with somebody like that so I suppose he wouldn't have any luck trying to resolve anything with me because I frankly wouldn't mind if he died in a fire anymore, rukii on the other hand abruptly decided that me and my behavior are "problematic" and set along silently downvoting me, when confronted he claimed it was to "tell me what I need to stop doing" which still couldn't be less descriptive because he never confronted me about anything or made any real effort towards this goal of making me less of a problem user.(08-17-2015, 01:06 PM)Surge Wrote: So it's my fault that they couldn't be bothered to try and resolve any disagreement in a way that is constructive for both sides is what I'm getting from this.
If you think that trying to "reason" with me is a lost cause then perhaps you should look at the way that everything winds up being my fault for why I don't put a terrible lot of stock in what others say, it's difficult to reach a civil end to a matter when somebody feels that the blame has to be pointed squarely at one person instead of both sides accepting responsibility for when they both fucked something up.
You're holding two conflicting ideas here - you can't expect people to reason with you when you simultaneously disregard anything they say (or "don't put stock in it") as you term it.
Also what's there to reason about? You said something -> they disagreed with it -> they downvoted you. End of story. Not everything is some kind of long running blood-feud. To be frank, it seems kind of self important that you expect everyone who disagrees with you to personally indulge you if they want you to consider it anything more than some kind of personal attack.
So as it turns out there's a good few past experiences that make this seem at least a little bit like a feud.
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