08-28-2015, 02:40 PM
(08-28-2015, 02:38 PM)Flarezerker Wrote:But they're convincing my friends that they shouldn't care either...(08-28-2015, 02:33 PM)Marxon Wrote: What good does proving them wrong do if they stop caring?
Nothing. At that point I would expect you to not care about them either. Dont waste your breath on them. Simple as that.
(08-28-2015, 02:38 PM)Ehksidian Wrote:I'm not as delicate as I used to be, I can handle it face to face, its going behind my back that bothers me.(08-28-2015, 02:29 PM)Marxon Wrote: I just... most of the people who have negative opinions of me are in this skype chat, and I fear that it may spread.
I mean I try to improve but what freaking good does it do if people decide to focus on what I was, label me as a depressed jerk?
What do you expect me to do when part of the community shuts me out wholesale?
The people who have negative opinions of you didn't want you in the group so that they wouldn't hurt you. Again, it's not out of malice that you are excluded, it's because some people do not trust themselves enough to be in a group chat with you without offending you/hurting you.
(08-28-2015, 02:40 PM)Surge Wrote:Probably a bit of both.(08-28-2015, 02:33 PM)Marxon Wrote: What good does proving them wrong do if they stop caring?A lot of people "stop caring" because they can't admit that that were wrong. If they have any ounce of humility they'll let it die, but somebody who "stops caring" about you trying to better yourself and keeps pointing out how awful you are is just simply an asshole.
Well...that or you've crossed some downright sacred lines...