09-01-2015, 01:35 PM
(09-01-2015, 12:58 PM)Surge Wrote:(09-01-2015, 12:55 PM)Segolia Wrote: I don't have the time nor patience to play "he said she said". The people starting these arguments are as much as fault as the people perpetuating them.Except you know...he said she said is kinda unnecessary when you can just go back a few pages and read.
Given the way people responded I'd say there's no clear victim here - I'd much rather address the behaviour causing the problem first, and deal with problem users if issues persist.
All I see is a bunch of people moaning over downvoting each other. As far as I'm concerned the people actually doing the downvoting have as much to do with this whole debacle as the people continuing the argument. All I see coming from trying to discern an actual 'victim' here is the other party complaining that I had it the wrong way around or something to that effect.
Furthermore...
(09-01-2015, 01:02 PM)Surge Wrote: Shhhhhh it's best to distance any discussion of moderation from real issues so as to keep it civiland prevent the mods from feeling like their authority is being challenged
...these kind of passive-aggressive remarks are completely unnecessary. If you have a legitimate issue with the way I have handled things, I suggest you be direct with me and not try to tiptoe around the issue in the manner above: my PM box is open.
If not, I suggest you stop.