11-09-2015, 08:34 PM
(11-09-2015, 08:26 PM)OdinYggd Wrote: Surge really needs to back off a little. He's not Marxon's parent, nor is he staff on the site. Though it may be painful to watch Marxon living a miserable life, it is out of line to continually be critical of him over it. Lecturing will never make him understand why he's stuck where he is, neither will yelling at or punishing. He won't ever change unless he deeply and truely wants to improve himself, and is willing to put aside the excuses and do a little more each day to be a better person.Yeah you're right, I can't make him want to change no matter how much I try to show him how and why...
And Surge, I believe you are wrong about asking for things. Because I do want a life where I am not given anything unless I ask for it. To me someone offering something I didn't ask for is annoying and while they may mean it with the best intentions in the long term makes me feel bad about it, because I feel like I owe them in return. Things have been so nice since I got my own apartment in that regard, because even though money is a little tight at times I can proudly say that I've earned the nice things I have and take care to enjoy and make the most of them because of the effort it would take to replace them if lost or damaged.
It may seem strange to you, but if you were to offer me something that I've always wanted, I would initially either refuse or get out my wallet if it was something I would have been able to afford on my own. Or I would just get mad at you for it because there's not as much joy in precious things that were not earned.
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