12-21-2015, 01:43 PM
(12-21-2015, 07:46 AM)Flarezerker Wrote:I've been dealing with him the past few months. :V(12-21-2015, 07:42 AM)OdinYggd Wrote: No wonder you're stressing out then. The problem with him is that what he is going through is so severe that very few people can endure it for long by themselves. He really needs a group of people to support him- but at times his episodes get so bad that such a group cannot sustain itself for long.
And because the whole situation is ongoing without having really shown improvement, there is nothing anyone here can do to help him. I gave him my best, but he is beyond my reach if he isn't willing to develop some self-control and find ways to deal with his frustration and stress without taking it out on himself or the people around him.
I had to block him on skype because I was too stressed out myself to continue supporting him, though I might undo that in the coming days if I can keep things together well enough.
Well, see, the fact of the matter isn't that I can't stand him that's stressing me out, it's that he refuses to try. Charity starts at home isn't something he understands, and as much as I'd like to, I can't help him if he won't help himself (or if he tries to blame his issues on me).