08-29-2016, 12:59 PM
(08-29-2016, 12:53 PM)Rahizel Wrote:Well I mean if it bugs you as much as it does others it may be wise to address it upfront rather than post something, let it piss people off, and get silently angry at yourself. edits can be your friend.(08-29-2016, 12:48 PM)Surge Wrote: I can't an won't speak for others, even though I doubt they'll speak for themselves, but what's always pissed the hell out of me is how needy you are. That tendency to chime in with no contribution other than the fact that you aren't currently receiving attention, which you've managed to translate into the RP as well and put ME off from trying to RP at all so I don't have to deal with a character whose sole purpose is to be a "rover sue."
If you want to have discussions with people and not get "the cold shoulder" from the "cool kids club" you need to be able to say things worth discussing, provide an actual contribution to the conversation at hand or provide a genuinely interesting topic, not just shuffle in and make yourself known. Generally speaking speaking people will not give a shit about you and your feelings unless you can establish a reason for them to separately.
Yeah I do that a lot and it annoys the crap out of me when I catch myself doing it. I was planning on removing the gryphon character from the RP because thats all it was used for. Old habits die hard but they DO die.
I'm happy to listen and respond to criticism and be called out for letting my guard down and go back to bad habits, preferably subtley though. But yeah if it annoys even me it's no good, at least knowing that I have the problem I can keep an eye out and avoid it the best I can.
Also working on my issues with impulsiveness by reading over my own messages before posting.
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