02-26-2017, 10:14 AM
(02-26-2017, 09:43 AM)Segolia Wrote:(02-26-2017, 04:46 AM)Lost Rinoah Wrote: Just because I sound super serious does not mean I necessarily am. I just prefer transferring as much information as possible, as efficiently as possible. And no nonsense is much more efficient. When I have little else to add i'll occasionally deal with such intricacies as jokes or metaphorical messages. However even with no nonsense I cannot convey information with 100% efficiency. I could forget things, only think of them after, or not know enough on the subject to provide anything. Thus I will provide as much as I can, as quickly as I can, with no nonsense. If you see that as being "too serious" It's internal from you rather than something I am doing. Since I can highbrow a joke to the point people think i'm stating a fact at times and only get it after they do research. I tend to avoid jokes in general. It's not funny if you have to explain the jokes.Try being more to-the-point?
See, even this is stated casual. This is my regular relaxed state, where I can joke around if I really want to. However in order for it to be funny for other folks I usually have to take advantage of situational humor and deadpan in order to incite any reaction beyond "huh..?"
You seem to have a penchant for excessively florid language and going off on tangents, both of which are in direct opposition to maintaining a casual tone. It's difficult to maintain familiarity if you need to drag out even the simplest point over an entire paragraph.
eg. you pretty much could replace your message above with "I'm often quite detailed, even when speaking casually"
Up up. But that wouldn't be me now would it?
If you see it as not casually talking then you have internalized what you thought I meant. And I'm sorry. But I don't have control over what other people think, nor will I limit what I say simply because other people misinterpret. I will however constantly improve. Eventually I may have fewer issues with causing other people to have trouble understanding. But words are words, and cutting out information would be counter-intuitive to what I am attempting to do by putting the message up in the first place..
If you want me to cut down what I could have said. I am both blunt and verbose, I do tangent to provide information that may also be relevant or that I think may become relevant, I do expressly choose to provide as much info as possible in such tangents, and I know of my issues. Unfortunately however, it's how my entire mind works, so I cannot simply curb it, only attempt to work with it to better myself in the future. Make things both informative and clear. But so far it's lead me to tangent even more, write even more. I try, and will keep on trying to be more concise however.
This is me trying my best to be concise. Lacking so much of what I could to say... Uhhg causes physical pain.