Avali Nexus

(06-10-2015, 02:06 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2015, 01:58 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]Why? No matter what I do people here will treat me like shit.

I wonder why.
Okay so let's go over the reasons.
1: you're clingy, okay there's no way to beat around the bush here, latching onto one or two people like a lamprey and sucking away their time and energy by trying to never leave their side is something people will either tolerate because some folks are just not very socially competent and do things like that, or they will hold you in low regard because of this.
2: this came in totally out of left field, you went from a fully functioning member of the community to self-loathing trainwreck actively pushing people away from you completely out of the blue, I could point a jet vertically down and turn on the afterburners and I still wouldn't be able to crash that hard.
3: this has gone on for far too long, everyone has a limit to their patience, with so many people having tried to help you for so long and you still begging for more and more constantly, nobody is willing to give anymore.
4: you don't want help, this is painfully evident, you have rejected everything that has been offered to you and then demanded more, which you either reject as well or don't receive and then throw a tantrum over.
5: you sabotage yourself, on a few occasions you have directly admitted to be trying to make people hate you, these efforts have mostly been far less effective than your other habits but the sentiment remains.

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(06-10-2015, 02:05 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]You're one of the biggest offenders!




I tried, i can't do it on my own.

horseshit. newsflash, if you can't do it nobody can. this isn't something people can fix for you, no matter how much either party wants it, you've convinced yourself that YOU can't fix this and thus you've made it completely impossible to fix.
If you want to wait for somebody else to fix your brain and emotions they'll never show up and you'll die still waiting.

A shame this is all true.

(06-10-2015, 02:09 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2015, 02:06 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]I wonder why.
Okay so let's go over the reasons.
1: you're clingy, okay there's no way to beat around the bush here, latching onto one or two people like a lamprey and sucking away their time and energy by trying to never leave their side is something people will either tolerate because some folks are just not very socially competent and do things like that, or they will hold you in low regard because of this.
2: this came in totally out of left field, you went from a fully functioning member of the community to self-loathing trainwreck actively pushing people away from you completely out of the blue, I could point a jet vertically down and turn on the afterburners and I still wouldn't be able to crash that hard.
3: this has gone on for far too long, everyone has a limit to their patience, with so many people having tried to help you for so long and you still begging for more and more constantly, nobody is willing to give anymore.
4: you don't want help, this is painfully evident, you have rejected everything that has been offered to you and then demanded more, which you either reject as well or don't receive and then throw a tantrum over.
5: you sabotage yourself, on a few occasions you have directly admitted to be trying to make people hate you, these efforts have mostly been far less effective than your other habits but the sentiment remains.

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horseshit. newsflash, if you can't do it nobody can. this isn't something people can fix for you, no matter how much either party wants it, you've convinced yourself that YOU can't fix this and thus you've made it completely impossible to fix.
If you want to wait for somebody else to fix your brain and emotions they'll never show up and you'll die still waiting.

A shame this is all true.

And then this. Motherfuck, Marx. How can ANYTHING change or improve if you give up before even attempting anything?

No, because you want us to do it for you. Even if it was the case that you needed help beyond your own capabilities, you prove that wrong by throwing away all help and advice we could possibly give.

So no. None of us have an obligation to help you. It only feeds your desire for attention.

And you'll likely hear what you want to hear from this, so it's a waste of my time.

(06-10-2015, 01:56 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2015, 01:54 AM)Shaadaris Wrote: [ -> ]Your welcome.
You never accept when people try to help you, and then within the next week you're calling everyone here terrible people again.
So no, I'm not sorry I said that.
I'm finally fed up with your behaviour and if you don't change it, I'll block you.
(Assuming of course you don't actually go through with your once-a-fortnight plan to leave and "never come back" because woe is you)
At this point I find you to be nothing but toxic half the time, and that is not okay.
Ever consider that your whining and constant doom and gloom attitude is what makes the communities you join ostracize you?
If you want people to treat you with any respect at all, treat them with respect and don't go around moaning and then complaining when they try to help you, and then freaking out when they decide that trying to help you for the two hundred and seventy-eighth is pointless because you just keep throwing away any advice anyone gives you.

Gib advice pls, I'm rather forgetful, it's a genuine medical thing.

Welcome to Advice with Shaadaris, The Guy Sucks at Giving Advice:
1. If you're feeling glum or down, you can't just expect people here to be able to help.
2. Angry? Depressed? Don't moan about it to everyone. That will probably make you feel worse, and will have the bonus effect of making everyone else also feel worse. Instead, try to focus on things that make you happy, however hard that may seem. Try to act happy, and over time it will make you happier... Or something like that. It's a thing my parents always tell me and at least in my experience, making an effort to focus on happy things and act happy does make me feel better.
3. Don't try to grab attention to yourself by making a scene. Instead, try to contribute constructively to a conversation or start one up. If that doesn't work, then it's likely everyone else is already engrossed in some kind of discussion or the topic doesn't particularily interest them; maybe try something else?
3a. If it's in RP, wait for people to be avaliable since RP tends to follow weird-time. One minute of RP time could take place over an hour in real time. Not everyone can be everywhere at any time.
4. If people react negatively to the way you're acting, try to understand why they're upset. Try to curb the bad behaviour, and if you can't or if you're in just such a terrible mood that you don't want to, then take a break and do something else. Continuing will only cause drama, and nobody likes drama.
5. Don't set high expectations for anyone. Everyone has their bad days, and some people will completely ignore advice like this and act like jerks. Avoid them at all costs, as they will likely cause drama if interacted with. (Case in point: Anyone recall when I ended up causing Vinely to quit? Yeah, I still haven't forgiven myself for that. I have problems controlling my emotions at times, and I really try not to come here when I'm feeling terrible, so as to avoid stuff like that happening again.)
6. I'm running out of advice. I said I was bad at this.
8. There is no 7.
7. I lied about the 7.
9. Okay, that's all I can think of for now. If anyone else has input, feel free to provide.

(06-10-2015, 02:09 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2015, 02:06 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]I wonder why.
Okay so let's go over the reasons.
1: you're clingy, okay there's no way to beat around the bush here, latching onto one or two people like a lamprey and sucking away their time and energy by trying to never leave their side is something people will either tolerate because some folks are just not very socially competent and do things like that, or they will hold you in low regard because of this.
2: this came in totally out of left field, you went from a fully functioning member of the community to self-loathing trainwreck actively pushing people away from you completely out of the blue, I could point a jet vertically down and turn on the afterburners and I still wouldn't be able to crash that hard.
3: this has gone on for far too long, everyone has a limit to their patience, with so many people having tried to help you for so long and you still begging for more and more constantly, nobody is willing to give anymore.
4: you don't want help, this is painfully evident, you have rejected everything that has been offered to you and then demanded more, which you either reject as well or don't receive and then throw a tantrum over.
5: you sabotage yourself, on a few occasions you have directly admitted to be trying to make people hate you, these efforts have mostly been far less effective than your other habits but the sentiment remains.

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horseshit. newsflash, if you can't do it nobody can. this isn't something people can fix for you, no matter how much either party wants it, you've convinced yourself that YOU can't fix this and thus you've made it completely impossible to fix.
If you want to wait for somebody else to fix your brain and emotions they'll never show up and you'll die still waiting.

A shame this is all true.

No the shame is that you've not given any thought to that statement, you've seen something that reflects on you poorly and automatically agreed, and you will do nothing with that information OR this information, you will go on hating yourself and refusing to stop for any reason.

Good Night everyone. Thanks for the support and advice.

(06-10-2015, 02:22 AM)kawaiiChiimera Wrote: [ -> ]

Accurate.

Wait, did I actually help in some strange way?
Interesting that, considering my first post was ratting at him.
Huh.

(06-10-2015, 02:23 AM)Shaadaris Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2015, 02:22 AM)kawaiiChiimera Wrote: [ -> ]

Accurate.

I'd try giving advice but then Marx would take it the wrong way and everything would be horrible.

(06-10-2015, 02:25 AM)kawaiiChiimera Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2015, 02:23 AM)Shaadaris Wrote: [ -> ]Accurate.

I'd try giving advice but then Marx would take it the wrong way and everything would be horrible.

Dont worry, he always takes it the wrong way.........I wonder what if we give him a bad advice, will he take wrong-wrong(right) way or the wrong-right(wrong) way?

I want to get TIS-1000, because apparently a puzzle game disguised as Assembler code is just my thing.

I think we need to create a seperate thread for Marxon <.<

I feel like every time I post something useful and constructive that people should know, it's in middle of DRAMA time, and it gets buried in seconds before anyone can make use of the world shattering revelations).

Hell, let us make our own threads so we can post stuff where it won't get buried... this is a really awkward way to run a forum.

(06-10-2015, 02:23 AM)Shaadaris Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2015, 02:22 AM)kawaiiChiimera Wrote: [ -> ]

Accurate.

Wait, did I actually help in some strange way?
Interesting that, considering my first post was ratting at him.
Huh.

Yes you did, thanks.

(06-10-2015, 02:31 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2015, 02:23 AM)Shaadaris Wrote: [ -> ]Accurate.

Wait, did I actually help in some strange way?
Interesting that, considering my first post was ratting at him.
Huh.

Yes you did, thanks.

And what did I ever do you to?

(06-10-2015, 02:31 AM)Ryuujin Wrote: [ -> ]I think we need to create a seperate thread for Marxon <.<

I feel like every time I post something useful and constructive that people should know, it's in middle of DRAMA time, and it gets buried in seconds before anyone can make use of the world shattering revelations).

Hell, let us make our own threads so we can post stuff where it won't get buried... this is a really awkward way to run a forum.

Drama time is over, i apologize if any post of yours got buried.

I still want to play borderlands with you sometime...

"Why The Mayorate is the best starsector faction mod."

(06-10-2015, 02:36 AM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote: [ -> ]

NSFW

that's one sexy looking plane

Victoria's.... Hold on a second while I make up a good plane pun.

(06-10-2015, 02:36 AM)SCN-3_NULL Wrote: [ -> ]

NSFW

that's one sexy looking plane

NO POSTING PORN
BANEND

Dealing with spawn campers

I'm going ham in DM with the SSG + Deag setup.