(08-28-2015, 02:29 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:26 PM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ]I was slightly surprised to hear that she removed you, considering that I heard nothing about you bugging her after the initial thing.
The past is the past, Marx. You know that you were angry and you regret blowing up like that. If you start feeling upset like that again, make sure to vent your frustrations elsewhere. Alright?
Depression is hard to deal with, and I know it's rough. I at least believe you can get through it.
I just... most of the people who have negative opinions of me are in this skype chat, and I fear that it may spread.
I mean I try to improve but what freaking good does it do if people decide to focus on what I was, label me as a depressed jerk?
What do you expect me to do when part of the community shuts me out wholesale?
What do you do? You prove 'em wrong. I've had to do that for pretty much my entire life, mainly because I'm part of a group that's stereotyped as a bunch of mentally handi-capped retards. Just take a moment to suck back and reload, and then show people what-for.
(08-28-2015, 02:32 PM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:29 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]I just... most of the people who have negative opinions of me are in this skype chat, and I fear that it may spread.
I mean I try to improve but what freaking good does it do if people decide to focus on what I was, label me as a depressed jerk?
What do you expect me to do when part of the community shuts me out wholesale?
What do you do? You prove 'em wrong. I've had to do that for pretty much my entire life, mainly because I'm part of a group that's stereotyped as a bunch of mentally handi-capped retards. Just take a moment to suck back and reload, and then show people what-for.
What good does proving them wrong do if they stop caring?
(08-28-2015, 02:33 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:32 PM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ]What do you do? You prove 'em wrong. I've had to do that for pretty much my entire life, mainly because I'm part of a group that's stereotyped as a bunch of mentally handi-capped retards. Just take a moment to suck back and reload, and then show people what-for.
What good does proving them wrong do if they stop caring?
Nothing. At that point I would expect you to not care about them either. Dont waste your breath on them. Simple as that.
(08-28-2015, 02:29 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:26 PM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ]I was slightly surprised to hear that she removed you, considering that I heard nothing about you bugging her after the initial thing.
The past is the past, Marx. You know that you were angry and you regret blowing up like that. If you start feeling upset like that again, make sure to vent your frustrations elsewhere. Alright?
Depression is hard to deal with, and I know it's rough. I at least believe you can get through it.
I just... most of the people who have negative opinions of me are in this skype chat, and I fear that it may spread.
I mean I try to improve but what freaking good does it do if people decide to focus on what I was, label me as a depressed jerk?
What do you expect me to do when part of the community shuts me out wholesale?
The people who have negative opinions of you didn't want you in the group so that
they wouldn't hurt you. Again, it's not out of malice that you are excluded, it's because some people do not trust themselves enough to be in a group chat with you without offending you/hurting you.
(08-28-2015, 02:33 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:32 PM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ]What do you do? You prove 'em wrong. I've had to do that for pretty much my entire life, mainly because I'm part of a group that's stereotyped as a bunch of mentally handi-capped retards. Just take a moment to suck back and reload, and then show people what-for.
What good does proving them wrong do if they stop caring?
A lot of people "stop caring" because they can't admit that that were wrong. If they have any ounce of humility they'll let it die, but somebody who "stops caring" about you trying to better yourself and keeps pointing out how awful you are is just simply an asshole.
Well...that or you've crossed some downright sacred lines...
(08-28-2015, 02:38 PM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:33 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]What good does proving them wrong do if they stop caring?
Nothing. At that point I would expect you to not care about them either. Dont waste your breath on them. Simple as that.
But they're convincing my friends that they shouldn't care either...
(08-28-2015, 02:38 PM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:29 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]I just... most of the people who have negative opinions of me are in this skype chat, and I fear that it may spread.
I mean I try to improve but what freaking good does it do if people decide to focus on what I was, label me as a depressed jerk?
What do you expect me to do when part of the community shuts me out wholesale?
The people who have negative opinions of you didn't want you in the group so that they wouldn't hurt you. Again, it's not out of malice that you are excluded, it's because some people do not trust themselves enough to be in a group chat with you without offending you/hurting you.
I'm not as delicate as I used to be, I can handle it face to face, its going behind my back that bothers me.
(08-28-2015, 02:40 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:33 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]What good does proving them wrong do if they stop caring?
A lot of people "stop caring" because they can't admit that that were wrong. If they have any ounce of humility they'll let it die, but somebody who "stops caring" about you trying to better yourself and keeps pointing out how awful you are is just simply an asshole.
Well...that or you've crossed some downright sacred lines...
Probably a bit of both.
(08-28-2015, 02:12 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:10 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]I like posting places where people try to make me feel unwelcome because I'm a big fan of petty revenge.
Personally I find this all hilarious though so I can't offer very good sympathy. Suffice to say though I assure you there are better people out there than those either nexus.
But I liked Reks, she cared about me, was very sweet to me, showed me kindness I didn't know existed...
And now I ruined it...
I'm going to go scream into a bunch of pillows until I go hoarse, it isn't right how I treated Reks.
It isn't right how I treated any of you.
I like you Marx
*Huggles.*
What you need to know is that some people don't return the affections you give. I.E everyone I've ever loved ever.
Y'know, I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive and makes me look like an asshole, but whining about it here really wont do much except garner pity points. Why dont you go and DO something about it, or at least try to, instead of complaining here? I mean, plus, what's the big deal with you and Skype?
(08-28-2015, 02:40 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:38 PM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ]Nothing. At that point I would expect you to not care about them either. Dont waste your breath on them. Simple as that.
But they're convincing my friends that they shouldn't care either...
(08-28-2015, 02:38 PM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ]The people who have negative opinions of you didn't want you in the group so that they wouldn't hurt you. Again, it's not out of malice that you are excluded, it's because some people do not trust themselves enough to be in a group chat with you without offending you/hurting you.
I'm not as delicate as I used to be, I can handle it face to face, its going behind my back that bothers me.
(08-28-2015, 02:40 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]A lot of people "stop caring" because they can't admit that that were wrong. If they have any ounce of humility they'll let it die, but somebody who "stops caring" about you trying to better yourself and keeps pointing out how awful you are is just simply an asshole.
Well...that or you've crossed some downright sacred lines...
Probably a bit of both.
Do you have any idea how many personal attacks it would take and how downright cruel you'd have to be to somebody that they wouldn't forgive you afterwards?
(08-28-2015, 02:42 PM)UnamusedAvali Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:12 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]But I liked Reks, she cared about me, was very sweet to me, showed me kindness I didn't know existed...
And now I ruined it...
I'm going to go scream into a bunch of pillows until I go hoarse, it isn't right how I treated Reks.
It isn't right how I treated any of you.
I like you Marx
*Huggles.*
What you need to know is that some people don't return the affections you give. I.E everyone I've ever loved ever.
Eeeeee!
*huggles back*
I appreciate the sentiment, friend.
(08-28-2015, 02:42 PM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ]Y'know, I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive and makes me look like an asshole, but whining about it here really wont do much except garner pity points. Why dont you go and DO something about it, or at least try to, instead of complaining here? I mean, plus, what's the big deal with you and Skype?
They only come here when there's trouble thinking they know everything.
(They being the few bad apples in the skype group)
(08-28-2015, 02:42 PM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ]Y'know, I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive and makes me look like an asshole, but whining about it here really wont do much except garner pity points. Why dont you go and DO something about it, or at least try to, instead of complaining here? I mean, plus, what's the big deal with you and Skype?
He doesn't like he's been knowingly excluded from the other nexus community, and ignored every time he asks to join.
(08-28-2015, 02:43 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:42 PM)UnamusedAvali Wrote: [ -> ]I like you Marx
*Huggles.*
What you need to know is that some people don't return the affections you give. I.E everyone I've ever loved ever.
Eeeeee!
*huggles back*
I appreciate the sentiment, friend.
(08-28-2015, 02:42 PM)Flarezerker Wrote: [ -> ]Y'know, I'm sorry if this sounds insensitive and makes me look like an asshole, but whining about it here really wont do much except garner pity points. Why dont you go and DO something about it, or at least try to, instead of complaining here? I mean, plus, what's the big deal with you and Skype?
They only come here when there's trouble thinking they know everything.
Then why would you care? Just go and watch some Ronald Reagan or something, that always gets me outta the dumps.
(08-28-2015, 02:42 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:40 PM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]But they're convincing my friends that they shouldn't care either...
I'm not as delicate as I used to be, I can handle it face to face, its going behind my back that bothers me.
Probably a bit of both.
Do you have any idea how many personal attacks it would take and how downright cruel you'd have to be to somebody that they wouldn't forgive you afterwards?
Well if they're dickheads like half my bullies throughout pretty much all my early life...
(08-28-2015, 02:45 PM)UnamusedAvali Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:42 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]Do you have any idea how many personal attacks it would take and how downright cruel you'd have to be to somebody that they wouldn't forgive you afterwards?
Well if they're dickheads like half my bullies throughout pretty much all my early life...
That's not you crossing any lines though, that's just them being cunts
(08-28-2015, 02:45 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:45 PM)UnamusedAvali Wrote: [ -> ]Well if they're dickheads like half my bullies throughout pretty much all my early life...
That's not you crossing any lines though, that's just them being cunts
Well their 'Ethnic Purity lines.' I know it's a racist stereotype about Serbians but experience after experience proves it true.
IDK what else to say about this though. Just gotta pick and choose your battles. Now go guzzle maple syrup and think of me or something. Yeah, because thats a proven way to get out of a bad mood.
(08-28-2015, 02:47 PM)UnamusedAvali Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:45 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]That's not you crossing any lines though, that's just them being cunts
Well their 'Ethnic Purity lines.' I know it's a racist stereotype about Serbians but experience after experience proves it true.
Again. Just them being cunts.
(08-28-2015, 02:53 PM)UnamusedAvali Wrote: [ -> ] (08-28-2015, 02:53 PM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]Again. Just them being cunts.
Maybe...
OR MAYBE ITS JUST A MASSIVE CONSPIRACY BY THE US GOVERNMENT!!!! It was so obvious... I mean, look at the evidence. We got one unhappy person, one somewhat racist comment, and a bunch of people taking this waaayyy too seriously. Its obvious. The U.S government wants more tax money! Hide your children! Hide your wives! Hide the elderly! And for Gods sake, PROTECT THE WALLETS!