(07-08-2015, 02:37 AM)Segolia Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:33 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]I'm injecting that making a scene is not in his best interests given what it got him last time.
You'll also find I didn't even apply for a mod position, I consider it infuriating that this entire situation has simply refused to work in a way that would have been in my favor even after I was told it would but I have accepted that I will not be accepted as a mod and resigned any ambitions towards such a position to being an inside joke.
Surge, the only person making a scene here is you.
Because the responsibility for an argument falls to whomever "is in the wrong" as opposed to the person who got argumentative.
(07-08-2015, 02:38 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:34 AM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ]Agreed.
I may re-ban marx, but only so he will have more time to adjust to his medication, and so people won't jump down his throat if he says what he said today. He was banned previously for threatening suicide.
He has gotten help. He is adjusting to medication, and needs plenty of time for it to take effect. I unbanned him a bit early, but only because he wanted some interaction. If people will act like this towards him whilst he is adjusting to mood-altering medication - which would logically make him more snappy and unbalanced until his body gets used to it and it begins fully working - I may ban him again.
Not out of need for help.
Not out of breaking a rule
But so he can relax and not have to worry about people getitng mad at him while he's just now starting new medication.
And please don't overuse your ability to ban, if you want me to go just ask.
I don't think anyone wants you to go, we all just think it would be a good idea to take a break for a bit and focus on something else.
(07-08-2015, 02:38 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:34 AM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ]Agreed.
I may re-ban marx, but only so he will have more time to adjust to his medication, and so people won't jump down his throat if he says what he said today. He was banned previously for threatening suicide.
He has gotten help. He is adjusting to medication, and needs plenty of time for it to take effect. I unbanned him a bit early, but only because he wanted some interaction. If people will act like this towards him whilst he is adjusting to mood-altering medication - which would logically make him more snappy and unbalanced until his body gets used to it and it begins fully working - I may ban him again.
Not out of need for help.
Not out of breaking a rule
But so he can relax and not have to worry about people getitng mad at him while he's just now starting new medication.
And please don't overuse your ability to ban, if you want me to go just ask.
Shh, don't misinterpret that- it'd be instead of a block function for you- since having people shouting at you would just make everything worse-
If reading this just results in people bashing down on you, it would be better if you just kept to yourself to a bit until everything settles in your mind- so, not a "ban" ban, just a placeholder for mental stability
(07-08-2015, 02:40 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]Because the responsibility for an argument falls to whomever "is in the wrong" as opposed to the person who got argumentative.
You're both though, in this case. owo
...
I did it.
I successfully installed a huge number of mods into Fallout:NV and lived.
124 active plugins and 94 mods.
Jesus christ that took so many hours.
bye guys
I wont resurface for a while unless it crashes repeatedly.
(Tapatalk borked)
Can i hug you drunk rukii?
(07-08-2015, 02:45 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ](Tapatalk borked)
Can i hug you drunk rukii?
Not really into snugsnugs = w =
Better to just get yourself some tea and watch a movie, unless it's too late already.
(07-08-2015, 02:40 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:37 AM)Segolia Wrote: [ -> ]Surge, the only person making a scene here is you.
Because the responsibility for an argument falls to whomever "is in the wrong" as opposed to the person who got argumentative.
You were the one who took it upon yourself to jump down marx's throat and chastise him for things he hasn't even done in this case. I'm not sure what your endgame here is but you seem to think your opinion is indicative of some greater belief that everyone here holds, rather than just your own. Considering that you have, on numerous occasions, admitted to relishing in conflict, I find it difficult to believe you have any good intentions here other than to start an argument for argument's sake.
I'm asking you to drop this, it's not a helpful line of conversation.
(07-08-2015, 02:40 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]Well, anyone wanna play terraria with me tomorrow now i got kicked out of my previous group? Im just about to enter hardmode on my own world.
Still way ahead from some of the
slowest in the bunch, though we could use a dedicated server if you do still in control on one, but then everyone have to use a new character and wolrd(expert/normal) also everything have to kept in sync(ot hardmode within a week)
(07-08-2015, 02:46 AM)Rukii Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:45 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ](Tapatalk borked)
Can i hug you drunk rukii?
Not really into snugsnugs = w =
Better to just get yourself some tea and watch a movie, unless it's too late already.
Please just a quick hug?
you're being refreshingly kind and nice and I love it.
(07-08-2015, 02:34 AM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:30 AM)Rukii Wrote: [ -> ] "I don't think he should allow himself to change absolutely nothing about his behavior even after getting help."
Surge, I'll admit to being a bit intoxicated, but what exactly are you injecting?
And the role you want for yourself is nothing less than mod, which you time and time again make blatantly obvious.
It's unfitting exactly because he's just started on mood altering meds, which is a state where he definitely shouldn't be provoked or confronted when not performing incredibly upsetting acts.
He should be left for three weeks, minimum. That is all.
Agreed.
I may re-ban marx, but only so he will have more time to adjust to his medication, and so people won't jump down his throat if he says what he said today. He was banned previously for threatening suicide.
He has gotten help. He is adjusting to medication, and needs plenty of time for it to take effect. I unbanned him a bit early, but only because he wanted some interaction. If people will act like this towards him whilst he is adjusting to mood-altering medication - which would logically make him more snappy and unbalanced until his body gets used to it and it begins fully working - I may ban him again.
Not out of need for help.
Not out of breaking a rule
But so he can relax and not have to worry about people getting mad at him while he's just now starting new medication.
I Would like to mention that i was simply stating what drove me nuts originally... i will admit i have seen some improvement in him but i feel that he needs to take time to better himself and take strides towards dealing with depression and giving it the time it neeeds to be effective... during the time that he is adjusting i fear that i will snap on him when i know he is trying... which is why i refuse to unblock him at the moment.... not because i hate him... its because for my oppinion it is for his and my own sanity...
again i don't hate him... i just feel he needs to adjust and let the treatment work... till then i feel its just... not stable enough for me to be around him as i am also partly in the dumps recently and rather not have him or me trying to cut each other apart out of something stupid... which i expect would set us off right now.
(07-08-2015, 02:51 AM)Corosar Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:34 AM)Ehksidian Wrote: [ -> ]Agreed.
I may re-ban marx, but only so he will have more time to adjust to his medication, and so people won't jump down his throat if he says what he said today. He was banned previously for threatening suicide.
He has gotten help. He is adjusting to medication, and needs plenty of time for it to take effect. I unbanned him a bit early, but only because he wanted some interaction. If people will act like this towards him whilst he is adjusting to mood-altering medication - which would logically make him more snappy and unbalanced until his body gets used to it and it begins fully working - I may ban him again.
Not out of need for help.
Not out of breaking a rule
But so he can relax and not have to worry about people getting mad at him while he's just now starting new medication.
I Would like to mention that i was simply stating what drove me nuts originally... i will admit i have seen some improvement in him but i feel that he needs to take time to better himself and take strides towards dealing with depression and giving it the time it neeeds to be effective... during the time that he is adjusting i fear that i will snap on him when i know he is trying... which is why i refuse to unblock him at the moment.... not because i hate him... its because for my oppinion it is for his and my own sanity...
again i don't hate him... i just feel he needs to adjust and let the treatment work... till then i feel its just... not stable enough for me to be around him as i am also partly in the dumps recently and rather not have him or me trying to cut each other apart out of something stupid... which i expect would set us off right now.
Awwww you're dealing with it too?
I hope you get better as well.
(07-08-2015, 02:40 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ]Well, anyone wanna play terraria with me tomorrow now i got kicked out of my previous group? Im just about to enter hardmode on my own world.
i wish i could marx but i'm already at the stage where i fight the moonlord to get his items, and attempt to get to wave 15 on both holiday moons
(07-08-2015, 02:48 AM)Segolia Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:40 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]Because the responsibility for an argument falls to whomever "is in the wrong" as opposed to the person who got argumentative.
You were the one who took it upon yourself to jump down marx's throat and chastise him for things he hasn't even done in this case. I'm not sure what your endgame here is but you seem to think your opinion is indicative of some greater belief that everyone here holds, rather than just your own. Considering that you have, on numerous occasions, admitted to relishing in conflict, I find it difficult to believe you have any good intentions here other than to start an argument for argument's sake.
I'm asking you to drop this, it's not a helpful line of conversation.
I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. That I did so with a marked lack of tact is obvious. Then Rukii took it upon himself to jump down my throat for the aforementioned lack of tact.
There is no endgame, words come and go, opinions do too. I'll argue this or that because it makes sense to me at the moment, I may think better of it later, I may not, you're welcome to offer your side as a counterpoint, I try very hard not to think less of people because of the opinions they hold, but that doesn't really dilute my predisposition towards excessive outbursts I'm afraid.
(07-08-2015, 02:44 AM)Nepeta Wrote: [ -> ]...
I did it.
I successfully installed a huge number of mods into Fallout:NV and lived.
124 active plugins and 94 mods.
Jesus christ that took so many hours.
bye guys
I wont resurface for a while unless it crashes repeatedly.
What mods have you installed!?
(07-08-2015, 02:52 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:51 AM)Corosar Wrote: [ -> ]I Would like to mention that i was simply stating what drove me nuts originally... i will admit i have seen some improvement in him but i feel that he needs to take time to better himself and take strides towards dealing with depression and giving it the time it neeeds to be effective... during the time that he is adjusting i fear that i will snap on him when i know he is trying... which is why i refuse to unblock him at the moment.... not because i hate him... its because for my oppinion it is for his and my own sanity...
again i don't hate him... i just feel he needs to adjust and let the treatment work... till then i feel its just... not stable enough for me to be around him as i am also partly in the dumps recently and rather not have him or me trying to cut each other apart out of something stupid... which i expect would set us off right now.
Awwww you're dealing with it too?
I hope you get better as well.
I have been feeling very useless and depressed recently... basically a bore and a burden to others... and spreading myself to a point where i nearly broke down once a week.. but i have been taking time for myself and stopped being as altristic as i use to be.... hell i still give my all for those i care about.. and potential friends i feel need help... but i have become introverted... and more quiet... course i still rant the fuck out of things... but basically what i am saying is i am learning what causes me to flip shit and try to avoid it... right now... alot of things are triggers for me.. but i rather not let others know unless i feel they really wish to know whats bothering me... i can't stand putting the burden on others to help me when i know i must break the mindset myself.
(07-08-2015, 02:55 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:48 AM)Segolia Wrote: [ -> ]You were the one who took it upon yourself to jump down marx's throat and chastise him for things he hasn't even done in this case. I'm not sure what your endgame here is but you seem to think your opinion is indicative of some greater belief that everyone here holds, rather than just your own. Considering that you have, on numerous occasions, admitted to relishing in conflict, I find it difficult to believe you have any good intentions here other than to start an argument for argument's sake.
I'm asking you to drop this, it's not a helpful line of conversation.
I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. That I did so with a marked lack of tact is obvious. Then Rukii took it upon himself to jump down my throat for the aforementioned lack of tact.
There is no endgame, words come and go, opinions do too. I'll argue this or that because it makes sense to me at the moment, I may think better of it later, I may not, you're welcome to offer your side as a counterpoint, I try very hard not to think less of people because of the opinions they hold, but that doesn't really dilute my predisposition towards excessive outbursts I'm afraid.
"I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. "
He was banned for his own sake, for the purpose of getting help - yet again, don't make things out to be what they aren't.
Words come and go, but a shitty attitude remains even so.
(07-08-2015, 03:01 AM)Rukii Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:55 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. That I did so with a marked lack of tact is obvious. Then Rukii took it upon himself to jump down my throat for the aforementioned lack of tact.
There is no endgame, words come and go, opinions do too. I'll argue this or that because it makes sense to me at the moment, I may think better of it later, I may not, you're welcome to offer your side as a counterpoint, I try very hard not to think less of people because of the opinions they hold, but that doesn't really dilute my predisposition towards excessive outbursts I'm afraid.
"I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. "
He was banned for his own sake, for the purpose of getting help - yet again, don't make things out to be what they aren't.
Words come and go, but a shitty attitude remains even so.
I am fully aware of why he was banned. I don't see the world through some red tinted kaleidoscope where everything is maliciously intended and everyone but me is an idiot, nor do I consciously allow myself to misrepresent a situation, I will admit to doing it subconsciously on occasion and a lot of shame for this disgusting habit of trying to garner pity.
I stand by my original statement.
(07-08-2015, 03:06 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 03:01 AM)Rukii Wrote: [ -> ]"I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. "
He was banned for his own sake, for the purpose of getting help - yet again, don't make things out to be what they aren't.
Words come and go, but a shitty attitude remains even so.
I am fully aware of why he was banned. I don't see the world through some red tinted kaleidoscope where everything is maliciously intended and everyone but me is an idiot, nor do I consciously allow myself to misrepresent a situation, I will admit to doing it subconsciously on occasion and a lot of shame for this disgusting habit of trying to garner pity.
I stand by my original statement.
Remember that it was you who said that, nobody is accusing you of such.
(07-08-2015, 03:01 AM)Rukii Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 02:55 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. That I did so with a marked lack of tact is obvious. Then Rukii took it upon himself to jump down my throat for the aforementioned lack of tact.
There is no endgame, words come and go, opinions do too. I'll argue this or that because it makes sense to me at the moment, I may think better of it later, I may not, you're welcome to offer your side as a counterpoint, I try very hard not to think less of people because of the opinions they hold, but that doesn't really dilute my predisposition towards excessive outbursts I'm afraid.
"I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. "
He was banned for his own sake, for the purpose of getting help - yet again, don't make things out to be what they aren't.
Words come and go, but a shitty attitude remains even so.
Seriously though you two, please stop this before it gets nasty.
Please?
(07-08-2015, 03:10 AM)Marxon Wrote: [ -> ] (07-08-2015, 03:06 AM)Surge Wrote: [ -> ]I am fully aware of why he was banned. I don't see the world through some red tinted kaleidoscope where everything is maliciously intended and everyone but me is an idiot, nor do I consciously allow myself to misrepresent a situation, I will admit to doing it subconsciously on occasion and a lot of shame for this disgusting habit of trying to garner pity.
I stand by my original statement.
Remember that it was you who said that, nobody is accusing you of such.
(07-08-2015, 03:01 AM)Rukii Wrote: [ -> ]"I took it upon myself to remind him that his current line of thought and behavior has previously gotten him banned indefinitely. "
He was banned for his own sake, for the purpose of getting help - yet again, don't make things out to be what they aren't.
Words come and go, but a shitty attitude remains even so.
Seriously though you two, please stop this before it gets nasty.
Not explicitly. I am very much paranoid and am prone to seeing and responding to hostility where there is none.
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